Confidence is in the eye of the beholder - Emma in her own words
“I used to be confident and carefree. I never worried what anyone thought and I was comfortable in my own skin. I've never been beautiful but I have felt it.
That all changed without me even realising, years of little comments, digs, remarks - all designed to chip away until, frankly, I didn't even recognise myself, let alone love myself.
My body felt like it was no longer my own. It was something that someone else was entitled to, my needs were not important and my feelings even less so. I read something recently that having a low sex drive is not really a thing, that your sex drive is connected to how you are feeling in that moment. I had come to believe I had no sex drive, when in fact what I had was no desire due to being made to feel completely undesirable.
Hitting 40 and being single for the first time in a long time, I was determined to change this. For me, not for anyone else. A boudoir shoot has always been on my bucket list so what better time.
I went through all the reasons not to, I'd put on weight, needed my eyebrows done, wanted another tattoo, it was self indulgent, what was the point if I wasn't going to share the pictures, but ultimately decided to jump out of my comfort zone and in front of the camera.
I watched ALOT of tiktoks for ideas and inspiration and trawled the internet looking for the perfect company - this is when I found Madison Bou. They were not the cheapest but I loved the feel of their website. I bit the bullet and booked. "
“When I tell you I panicked, I panicked! As the date approached, I panicked about EVERYTHING! The clothes, the underwear, the hair, make up, style, photos, would I even dare do it, would I hate it, would I feel ridiculous, nothing fitted, everything looked awful, I was being stupid etc etc etc...
A quick chat with both Dave and Jayne set me at ease and they reassured me I could take as much stuff as I wanted and they'd help put things together on the day. So I arrived on the day with a boot full of stuff. Anyone that knows me will not be surprised that there was an entire weekend bag full of shoes (and that didn't include the boots I was wearing and the other pair I threw in as I was leaving... Just incase.”
“The shoot was in a hotel suite, but we didn't head straight there, we sat in a reception area first and had a brew and a chat, instant relaxer. Once we moved to the room, the fun began, I unpacked everything and instantly ideas were being thrown around, questions asked and jokes made.
I sat for well over an hour whilst Jayne did my hair and make-up, I don't think I've sat so still for such a long time, I'm not normally very good at relaxing and being pampered. I will go to the hairdresser in my lunch hour and come out with wet hair if needed. But, I loved it and it made me feel special and worthy of the time.”
“We started in pyjamas which is basically what I spend half my life wearing so what better place to start? We moved on to the lingerie shots and some classic boudoir styling before finishing off fully dressed. As the day went on, my confidence increased, it's hard not to feel beautiful when you've got two cheerleaders egging you on in the loveliest way.
It was such a lovely day, I felt a million dollars all day, the centre of attention but without any pressure. A sneak peak at some of the photos on the back of the camera and I knew I was gonna love them. When Dave asked at the end of the day, had it been what I expected, my reply was "Even better, if there's not a picture I like, it will still have been worth every penny"
Of course, I loved all the pictures and spent more than I had intended but you know what... I am worth it!”
A Madison Bou Experience is one of the most fun days you’ll ever have.
You get to play dress up and be a lingerie model for the day.
You can bring your best friend and make it a "girl's day out"if you wish.
You'll be pampered as you get your hair and makeup done. Your favourite music will be playing.
You'll really feel like a star.
That's the fun part - BUT, the real benefit is yet to come...
The best part actually come AFTER your session.
From when you see your images for the first time, to receiving the finished album, and finally getting to relive the whole experience every time you look at your images.
You'll see the beauty in you that you often forget is there.
The boost in ego and self-confidence you'll receive is worth years of therapy, and a lifetime of self-help books.
If you don't believe us, here are some more words from just a few of the women we’ve had the privilege to photograph recently...
Empowerment Through Vulnerability
Booking a Boudoir Photoshoot requires a certain vulnerability.
It's about letting go of inhibitions, stepping out of your comfort zone, and embracing your body and soul. In doing so, you discover a sense of liberation that is profoundly empowering. It's a therapeutic experience that bolsters your self-esteem.
Professional Guidance and Support
Working with a skilled boudoir photographer can make all the difference. We do everything we can to create a safe and empowering environment, guiding you through poses that accentuate your best features. Our 20 year experience photographing Boudoir has given us the expertise to enhance the entire process, making you feel at ease and bringing out the very best in you.
The final collection of photos from your boudoir photoshoot will become a cherished treasure.
A testament to your courage, your uniqueness, and your journey towards self-love.
Whenever you look at these images, you'll be reminded of the confident, beautiful person you truly are.
A boudoir photoshoot in Yorkshire is more than a visual experience; it's a journey towards self-love and self-discovery. It's a celebration of every curve, every scar, and every nuance that makes you uniquely you. Embrace the beauty within and let Yorkshire's stunning landscapes echo your radiant individuality.
We urge you to embrace the beauty within you celebrate being ‘perfectly imperfect’.