Are you planning a Boudoir Photoshoot but unsure of what to wear?

Did you know the classic white button shirt is one of our favourites for its versatility and timeless appeal? Today we will walk you through the reasons why the simple white shirt can be just the thing for an elegant, sensual photo session.

Let's unbutton the secrets of the button shirt…

Firstly, a big tip if you’re thinking of this look for your session… Don’t wear one of your fitted shirts. Strange as it may seem, this look often looks sexier in an oversized man’s shirt. Wear it super casual, like you’ve just woken up and thrown it on to get out of bed. Roll up the sleeves, fold up the collar, open the buttons (as many or as few as you like) and snuggle up in it. Super casual, that’s the white shirt’s super power.

Overcoming Sexual Shame through Boudoir Photography

In a world often fraught with expectations and stigmas surrounding sexuality, Boudoir Photography can be a transformative and empowering tool for those women seeking to break free from the shackles of ‘sexual shame’.

Boudoir is an intimate art form that provides a safe space for self-expression, allowing people to embrace their sensuality and redefine their relationship with their own bodies. Today, we look at some good reasons why Boudoir Photography can become a powerful antidote to sexual shame.

Many women we see are nervous about what to expect during a photo shoot. After all, they’ve mostly never done anything like this before and when you combine this with the fact that the majority of women have real anxieties about their bodies it’s no wonder they arrive with a certain trepidation.

This is completely natural, but with the right preparation and a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere, the experience can be an empowering and enjoyable one for everyone.

We Are The Couples Boudoir Photographers in Yorkshire and we’ve been photographing couples for 20 years.

Celebrate your relationship with a couples photoshoot at Madison Bou.

Explore your relationship in a new light, spark that fire, feel alive, adventurous, excited, erotic, sensual, passionate and just plain super Sexy!

Maybe you've never resonated with any of these things… but here’s your chance.

This might just be the best date you've ever been on.

You'll finish your experience with amazing art for your home, that you can look back on and say WOW!....IS...THIS...REALLY US?

This is the perfect anniversary gift / Valentines Gift / Pregnancy Gift / ‘Just because’ Gift

Boudoir photography has long been associated with celebrating the unique beauty of individuals, transcending conventional standards of attractiveness and throughout this blog you’ll see we constantly address the fact that we welcome and encourage women of all shapes and sizes (and ages) to enjoy the Boudoir Experience.

There is no rule book when it comes to beauty and yet the media, social media, in particular, would like us to think there is. If we were to accept only what the fashion industry shoves down our necks then only size 6 women are able to wear fashionable clothes. Of course this is poppycock and, thankfully, the industry is changing but the change is slow. We are seeing more and more women of different sizes been represented in the media but it’s still the case that the number one reason women stop short of enjoying a Boudoir Experience is because of being self conscious of their weight. This is such a shame since the real power of a Boudoir photoshoot is to build confidence in the way you look and to increase self-love towards the body you have right now. We see it all the time with the women we photograph who start off with body issues (just like everyone else) and then we see how much more they grow in confidence after their shoot. The positive effects are clear to see with absolutely every single person who comes to us, though, with some women, these effects aare extreme. Literally life changing! (We keep saying this but only when you experience it yourself will you really believe it)

We all get bombarded by unrealistic beauty standards on a daily basis. Fake perfection is everywhere and everyone looks so happy and content leading such perfect lives that sometimes it can make us feel that we’re the odd ones out. We’re not quite good enough somehow.

A Boudoir Photoshoot has some responsibility in debunking this myth of fake perfection. Size and weight are not an issue and should not hold you back from enjoying this experience. Yet, as a studio that specialises in boudoir photography, we often hear from clients who are apprehensive about booking a session because they believe they are curvier than will look good on camera. They worry that they won’t look as good as the ‘models’ they see on our website or on social media, and that their insecurities will be magnified in front of the camera.

It’s totally understandable to think that way but hold on a second… These women are not ‘professional models’ on our site, they are women, just like you. Same worries, same insecurities.

You may have been railroaded into thinking you’re not ‘good enough’ or that you don’t have the ‘right body’ for boudoir but this is all in your mind. This is simply not true.

The real truth is that every woman deserves to celebrate her unique beauty, regardless of what the ‘fake perfection’ media think.

Every Body is unique and every body is amazing and embracing this diversity is the true power of this empowering experience called Boudoir.

When it comes to boudoir photography, the location sets the stage for capturing moments of intimacy, empowerment, and sheer luxury.

Choosing the right location enhances the overall aesthetic style of the photoshoot with the use of setting, furnishings and backdrops. A Luxury Boudoir experience isn’t all about luxurious settings but about creating something unique to each client. It could be wearing a swimsuit in the client’s own swimming pool or garden Hot Tub or nude horseback riding ‘Lady Godiva’ style in a private wood.

Discovering the ideal locations for a luxury boudoir photoshoot involves seeking environments that not only complement your personal style but also evoke a sense of indulgence.

From lavish suites in upscale hotels to the most personal location of all - Your beautiful home. The choice is yours and though the options are endless, this article will list some of our favourites…

Are you curious about implied nudity?

OMG…Is she actually naked?

Would I have to get naked?

Could I even?!

…. Hold that thought for a moment.

Guess what, 99.9% of our clients are scared of the thought of posing naked in front of a camera. In fact, just the idea of posing in front of a camera with clothes on fills them with dread. Many of our clients come to us after years of covering up their mummy tummies and have lost their mojo through the daily hum drum of everyday life. To regain some of that joie de vivre they turn to the idea of a confidence building boudoir style photoshoot. Every single clients leaves us feeling so much more confident in themselves.

WEDDING BOUDOIR IDEAS

So, the wedding is set and now you’ve booked a wedding boudoir photo shoot to create the perfect gift for the perfect groom. This is THE ultimate way to make your soulmate lust after you for a lifetime.

There’s nothing better than watching those eyes light up when they see your steamy pictures.

Fabulous!

Even better though is that along with a totally unique and intimate gift for you to share as a couple – A Bridal boudoir photoshoot is a gift to yourself.

Once considered too risqué or taboo, boudoir art has become one of the hottest trends in wedding gifts. A must-have item.

This experience is a way to celebrate the remarkable woman you are. You’ve worked hard to become her, to embrace her and you deserve this amazing experience. After all – You are the irresistible reason your partner put a ring on it in the first place!

Congratulate yourself with this Madison Bou wedding boudoir session.

Yet booking the date is one thing. – Now, though, the panic sets in…

What to wear?

Well, don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. When you book a Madison Bou Experience we’ll send you a 27-page style guide packed with plenty of ideas for your photoshoot day. We’ll also talk with you in person or on the phone so we get an idea of exactly what you’ll love to get out of your experience. Every bride is different and every bridal boudoir photo shoot is different.

Here are a few ideas for your big bridal boudoir day.

Posing is an area that most clients worry about the most when they decide to take the plunge and go for it! They tell us they don’t know how to pose and feel awkward in front of the camera. Well, that’s where we come in like a caped crusader to save the day.Over 20 years experience photographing women of all shapes and sizes and age groups has taught us a thing or two about posing. What looks awkward, what looks natural and what looks dramatic. Jayne, who’s the beauty and brains behind this operation we call Madison Bou is a dancer by profession and has spent years dancing on stage around the world as well as teaching dance and choreography. This has set her up to be an expert in poses of all kinds. Trust us when we say you are in safe hands when you book a Boudoir Experience with us.

Some poses you’ll discover are as natural as breathing and some make you question if the human body should bend that way. We understand that some are more flexible than others and we’ll make sure that you look amazing in every pose we direct and not overstretched or uncomfortable in any way.

Some of these poses you see below can be simply breath-taking and some will raise eybrows. The 10 poses below have all been chosen because they will look jaw-dropping when executed correctly and we’ll help you every step of the way. These are not the average pose you’ll see on the average ‘selfie’, these are the kinds of poses which can look awkward and unflattering in the wrong hands. When executed with panache, however, they take on a new level which will make your Boudoir Session stand head and shoulders above the rest.

Are you ready to get posing?

Boudoir Photography is essentially a sensual form of portraiture that celebrates the uniqueness and beauty of every type of body.

It's rise in popularity in recent years is revolutionising the way we perceive beauty and self-confidence. It empowers women to embrace their unique beauty and encourages greater self - acceptance and confidence in their own skin. Women are able to use this safe place to freely express themselves without judgment, fostering a sense of comfort and acceptance.

Importantly, Boudoir photography celebrates diversity and challenges traditional beauty standards by representing individuals of all shapes and sizes.

There’s no denying that Boudoir Photography is pretty expensive to the average person on the street.

We understand why people say this.

After all, remember when we first saw prices for mobile phones hit £1000, we couldn’t believe that anyone would pay that kind of crazy money. (Our Nokias only cost £50. what more did we want from a phone?)

The big difference between a Boudoir Photoshoot though and a £1000 phone is in it’s inherent VALUE.

You see what something costs and how much it’s actually worth to you are often two very different things.

The cost of your £1000 phone is derived from a variety of things such as the millions of pounds it cost to research and develop the technology, the raw materials (retina screen, computer chip, camera lens etc etc), the marketing (again, many millions of pounds ) and of course the servicing costs, not to mention overheads added by shop rents, staff wages, etc. We see the physical value of our £1000 as justifiable because we’ve been conditioned to believe that this is how much these things cost and they’ve become such an important part of our daily lives that they’ve almost become a necessity these days.

However, when it comes to ‘value’, we see the value of our iPhone depreciating everytime we use it, as it gets a little scratched and as it becomes obsolete and replaced with a newer model with better camera and newer features. …

A Madison Bou Boudoir Photoshoot is a one-of-a-kind, unforgettable boutique experience.

Each shoot day is dedicated to only one client, so you will receive the ultimate boudoir/glamour photo session that is unique to you and you’ll never see another client waiting in the wings for their turn. We don’t do set poses and routines because everybody is different with different styles and wants and needs. Just like we don’t dish out generic Christmas presents to all our family and friends, we put thought into what they actually would like, the same is true of our boudoir shoots. We have conversations with each client prior to the shoot to determine what kind of style they’re drawn to and what kind of setting they would prefer. We try and find out how each client would like to display their final pictures so we shoot with the end result in mind. We would approach a photoshoot for a dramatic piece of wall art quite differently to a book of pictures with multiple outfits and storylines for example.

All our photoshoots include hair and make-up as standard (though, there’s nothing ‘standard’ about our shoots) and we don’t place restrictions on what clients can bring to the shoot to wear. We also don’t clock watch so we allow plenty of time to get the shots we need. After 20 years of photographing the art of boudoir we know that some people don’t warm to the camera as quickly as others and so some people need a little more direction. Everyone gets there in the end it’s just the process of directing the shoot which is different for every individual. Some clients bring way too much stuff since they can’t decide and end up bringing everything in the wardrobe and others bring barely a dressing gown and a pair of knickers and we promise to create amazing pictures no matter what.

Sometimes we come across people who just don’t get what we do.

It can seem strange to some that there is this whole genre of photography which specialises in photographing women (primarily) wearing little to no clothing and they often seem surprised that we don’t just do family pictures or baby pictures or weddings (As if these are the only types of ‘respectable’ portraiture )

Yet, in the general world of art, the human form has been a subject of fascination for centuries.

Nude art paintings have always been a topic of great interest for art lovers and critics alike. Undoubtedly, many of these paintings left quite a mark on the cultural norms of the art world and left audiences gasping for more.

Naturally, visual art and its mediums have changed over the years, and even though today there are many more different ways in addition to the age-old charm of free-hand painting, the celebration of the feminine form has remained constant…

WHY BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY IS THE ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE BOOSTER

Let’s face it, as women, we’re bombarded with unrealistic beauty standards every day. We’re told that we need to look a certain way, act a certain way, and be a certain size to be considered beautiful. But here’s the thing – beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and ages. And boudoir photography is the perfect way to celebrate that.

Boudoir photography is all about embracing your unique beauty and showcasing your sexiness. It’s about celebrating your body and feeling confident in your own skin. And when you see the final result – stunning, fierce, and beautiful photos of yourself – it’s hard not to feel like a total supermodel!

We may feel tense, uncomfortable, or self-conscious in our own skin. And for women, this can be especially challenging when it comes to our bodies. We are constantly bombarded with images of the “perfect” body and are made to feel as though we are not good enough. But what if there was a way to let go of these worries and insecurities, and feel more comfortable and confident in our own skin? This is where boudoir photography comes in. Here, we explore how boudoir photos can heal you by helping you let go of the weight of your worries and insecurities…

WE HAVE 3 OF OUR LUXURY GLAM/BOUDOIR EXPERIENCES TO GIVE AWAY (WORTH £189)

SIMPLY TELL US WHY YOU ARE AN ‘INDEPENDENT WOMAN’ (IT COULD BE ANYTHING FROM HAVING YOUR OWN HOME TO BREAKING UP FROM A DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIP OR GOING IT ALONE IN YOUR JOB)

We’re looking for 3 women who will share their stories of independence with us in return for an amazing day at Hazlewood Castle having the transformational photoshoot of a lifetime. You must also be willing to share your images so you will help inspire others to become independent women, just like you.

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How Boudoir Photography Can Heal You And Make You Fall In Love With Yourself

When was the last time you felt truly confident or truly sexy?

So many of the women we see tell us they don’t ever really remember feeling that good about themselves. They don’t remember ever looking in the mirror and loving what they see.

This negativity sometimes can be attributed to a life trauma, like a divorce or being in an abusive relationship or losing a job but often, negativity just creeps up on you over the years. The result of ageing, of gaining weight, of the menopause of looking after the baby and of the many other things that life throws at us.

A Boudoir Photoshoot will help you to strip away the distractions of everyday life.